A couple of years ago, a friend and I took two weekend trips – one to LA, and one to Seattle. I remember being glad to get out of town. I had been juggling a full-time job and a part-time teaching gig, so I was beat.
Not only did I feel run down, I think I looked it too. My hair was in that awful in-between stage — too long to be short and too short for a ponytail. My highlights were fading, and I needed a relaxer. Add dark under eye circles and a not-so-glowing complexion, and you had what was by far my most haggard look.
In LA, the people were sunny, sparkling, and stylish. In Seattle, they were effortlessly cool. My fatigue was magnified while in both locations. My friend felt it too. She battled a demanding job and found it hard to take a break.
At some point during one those trips, we made a pact. I’m certain a good meal and a glass or two of wine were involved. We would dedicate ourselves to being fabulous.
By the time we returned home and fell back into our busy routines, the pact was all but forgotten. A pregnancy and a new job for hubby made for big changes in our household. My pregnancy was a high-risk one, thanks to chronic hypertension. Hubby’s job was out of state and would keep him away for two weeks at a time. Being fabulous was not a priority.
A few things have happened in the last year and a half (Time flies!) that have me thinking about this again.
1. Pregnancy and prenatal vitamins gave me a head of shiny, thick hair. Post-partum hair loss left me with bald spots at the temples. Enter a talented stylist who cut in a bob with blunt-cut bangs to rival Michelle Obama’s. And just for the record, I got mine first.
2. My friend gave me a gift card for a mani/pedi, which I promptly used. Then Ulta Beauty opened near my house, and they regularly send me coupons that are too good to ignore.
3. I decided to cut myself some slack. If I say no once in a while and ask my hubby for help, it’s amazing how much more time I seem to have. More about these later.
I don’t know if I’m fabulous just yet, but I think I’m well on my way.